In my past relationships I have been described as someone who, “Over Thinks It.” I am not entirely sure what that means. To be honest, the definition seems like the circumstances in which this term was used to vary from person to person. However, usually I would hear these words uttered a week prior to the ending of the relationship.
In my defense I can say looking back on the last three people I have dated all three can be best described as emotionally unavailable. To be fair I wouldn’t say they were emotional damaged or dead but it seemed commitment wasn’t something they were looking for at least with me.
It took me awhile to understand that people can sometimes pretend to be interested in something only for the sole purpose of getting what they want or need.
As a more mature person, as a more complete person. I have learned that my “over thinking it” is a warning alarm screaming at me “you’re in danger Will Robinson.”